Who as a man doesn't know this situation in which an ideal opportunity for a promising flirt with a desirable lady presents itself and we simply let this moment pass by without doing anything?
Exactly when it is important to radiate relaxedness and confidence, our nerves fail and we feel inhibited and blocked. It's no wonder that we can't think of the right words for a charming speech or even an accurate compliment. The chance of getting to know each other evaporates and we bite our lips in frustration.
Now it is relatively natural that we humans lack spontaneity in such moments and feel very blocked in our ingenuity. If you're not experienced at flirting, there's not much you can do about it. Or is it?
Coincidentally, a promising tool for such flirting opportunities was recently presented to an interested crowd of young men “Be Dandy” gentlemen's fair in Dresden
Stop! Wait, there's a fair just for gentlemen and dandies? Never heard of it!
Gentlemen fair “Be Dandy!” Dresden 2018
The trade fair in question actually took place on September 9th, 2018 in Dresden at the Kraftwerk Mitte and is the only gentlemen's trade fair in Germany. It offered men the opportunity to get to know different labels, brands and service providers in one place in order to live out and emphasize their own lifestyle as a modern man with style.
From barbers to jewelry dealers, tailors, shoemakers as well as liquor and tobacco dealers to men's outfitters, everything that makes a man's heart beat faster could be experienced here first hand. This event, which is unique in Germany, was rounded off with various goodies, style advice, competitions and a befitting after-trade party.
If you read through the testimonials from exhibitors, visitors and participants, then the trade fair has proven to be a great source of inspiration for the stronger sex, with the clear aim of only bringing out the best side of us men.
If we now return to the actual topic of this article, then we noticed one exhibitor in particular who had already appeared in advance of Be Dandy! was able to make positive headlines at Cebit 2018...
The Gentleman Cards
With so-called “Gentleman Cards”, this young company offers an extremely helpful little tool so that you will never miss a good opportunity to flirt in the future. With the business card-sized compliments , you can now have the right saying for every situation in your pocket wherever you go. Practical, right?
“It makes it much easier for you to come into contact with others. […],” says one of the company’s customers, very satisfied with his experience with this product. The design of the cards is stylish, classic and elegant.
Above all, you could observe the hard-working team from Gentleman Cards as they first put a smile on the faces of the other exhibitors with their trays of cards, flyers and Jim Bean fudges and then turned their attention to the visitors, who always returned the nice, charming compliments replied with a joyful expression.
Gentleman Cards team drew an extremely positive conclusion after the trade fair:
“A complete success! At Cebit we had a success rate of around 90% among the recipients. Here in Dresden at the Be Dandy! It was even 100%. Not a single person didn’t appreciate the compliment and everyone was happy and elated.”
And if you might think that compliments are old school and no longer work with today's women, you are very much mistaken...
The positive effect of compliments on women
The fact is that compliments make you happy and are therefore very helpful when getting to know someone. The right positive, flattering and appreciative word at the right time can bring a smile, increase tension and even open the other person's heart.
Flattering words are not only balm for the soul and your own ego, they have also been proven to increase your chances of flirting . This is also the result of a wide-ranging online survey. Regardless of gender, 73 percent of singles really enjoy a compliment as an expression of admiration. If you do it right, of course - and here's the crux of the matter.
The reason why some people are quite skeptical about compliments is mainly because they are used incorrectly. Because if these are formulated in the wrong place and clumsily, clumsily or even out of embarrassment, they often do not have the desired effect on the other person, but may even cause embarrassment.
At the same time, there is also a very widespread opinion that compliments from women are often misunderstood and can, for example, be dismissed as bullshit.
But if you follow a few important basic rules, like...
- Be honest and sincere
- Be attentive
- Be selfless
- Be clear
- Timing plays a big role
- Ask a question afterwards
- Avoid hackneyed phrases
- Do not exaggerate
- Don't flatter yourself
- quality before quantity
... then you can skillfully avoid these faux pas and watch the wonderful effect of compliments on the opposite sex unfold. The Gentleman Cards are a great tool for this!
