Sexuality is a central aspect of human life and is shaped by a variety of terms and practices that are often misunderstood. Many of these terms are deeply embedded in cultural and historical contexts and often have different meanings and interpretations.
This article provides a detailed overview of some of the most well-known erotic terms and concepts , their origins and meanings.
There are always first experiences in life when it comes to erotic services, such as using an exclusive high-class escort service . Are you completely inexperienced and unsure when it comes to arranging a high-class escort service? No worries!
compiled and explained the most common terms especially for newcomers to this area So you can prepare and enjoy your first high-class escort adventure with confidence.
Introduction to the versatility of erotic terms
Let's start with terms and abbreviations that are generally used and widespread world of erotica
BDSM
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BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism. These terms describe a range of sexual practices and role play that emphasize power, control and devotion. Historically, BDSM has a complex past dating back to the 18th century.
- Bondage : The act of tying a person up to restrict movement.
- Discipline : The setting and enforcement of rules and punishments.
- Dominance and Submission : A power relationship in which one person exercises control and the other submits.
- Sadism and Masochism : The pleasure in causing or suffering pain.
fetishism
A fetish is an unusually strong sexual interest in a particular object, body part, or action. Fetishism can seem harmless as long as it is practiced consensually and without coercion.
Fetishes range from everyday objects like shoes to more specific preferences like leather clothing.
A fetish booking with escort agencies usually refers to the worship of feet, hair or armpits.
Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Voyeurism and exhibitionism are mutual sexual inclinations. Voyeurists enjoy watching other people undress or engage in sexual acts without their knowledge, while exhibitionists experience sexual arousal by exposing their bodies to strangers.
Swinging
Swinging or swinging refers to exchanging partners or partners in a sexually open relationship.
It emerged in Western culture in the late 1960s and emphasizes mutual respect and clear communication between all swingers .
Tantra
Tantra is an ancient spiritual practice from India and Tibet that views sexual union as a form of meditation and spiritual elevation.
Tantra emphasizes the importance of sexual energy for personal and spiritual development.
Polyamory
Polyamory means having more than one romantic relationship at the same time with the knowledge and consent of all partners involved. This form of relationship requires open and honest communication and respect for individual boundaries and needs.
Frequently asked questions that arise in connection with these terms
Question 1: Is BDSM dangerous?
BDSM can be dangerous if practiced without proper knowledge or consent. Safety, communication and consent are crucial to creating a safe and respectful environment.
“Safe, Sane, Consensual” (SSC) or “Risk-Aware Consensual Kink” (RACK) are principles often emphasized BDSM community
Question 2: What is the difference between a fetish and a normal sexual preference?
A fetish refers to an exceptionally strong and specific sexual interest that is often necessary to the experience, whereas a normal sexual preference is not considered essential to sexual arousal.
Question 3: Can voyeurism be legal?
Voyeurism can be legal if done with the consent of a knowing person. However, without consent it is a criminal offense and constitutes an invasion of privacy.
Question 4: Are polyamorous relationships stable?
The stability of a polyamorous relationship , like monogamous relationships, depends on the communication, mutual respect and compatibility of the partners.
Many polyamorous people report fulfilling and stable relationships when all parties are committed and communicative.
Question 5: How do you start with Tantra?
Tantra often requires guidance from experienced teachers or workshops. It begins with breathing techniques, meditation and conscious physical connection. The focus is on recognizing and harnessing sexual energy to achieve a deeper physical and spiritual connection.
By engaging with these erotic concepts and practices, we can gain a better understanding of the diversity of human sexuality. It's important to talk openly and respectfully about these topics to reduce stigma and promote healthy sexual well-being.
In the second part of this article, let us now devote ourselves to special terms and abbreviations that appear particularly in connection with erotic services and escort services...
GFE, OV, FFM and PSE? High class escort lingo explained
Each professional field uses specific terminology, which is why we have taken the trouble to explain most common slang expressions used by escorts
Every industry, every company and every team has its own jargon to get their jobs done. This also applies to escorts who use special expressions and abbreviations to advertise their services.
While you may come across common business abbreviations such as “COB” (Close of Business) , “BAU” (Business as Usual) and “ETA” (Estimated Time of Arrival) , you can only guess at the specific language of Escorts are used.
If you are thinking of treating yourself to a break in erotic paradise for the first time, you might be surprised by the variety of services offered on the websites of escort agencies such as Ivana Models and in erotic flyers and posters.
Find out more about it here…
Escort
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A paid professional escort who can keep you company, be it at dinner, an event or a party. It is important to note that not all escorts are automatically considered prostitutes, but merely escorts.
It is your responsibility to clarify in advance whether you will be offered any type of sexual services and whether you would like to use them. There are many reputable escort services that ensure that all activities remain civil and respect the privacy of their customers.
Dom/dommes
Dom , also known as a female dominatrix, is an experienced and sensitive provider of customized BDSM services. With Dommes you can place yourself completely in their hands and live out your desire for submission at the highest level.
With their years of experience and deep understanding of their clients' needs, Dommes guarantee that every session will be a unique and fulfilling experience. Let Dommes introduce you to the exciting world of BDSM and experience the limitless pleasure of submission.
couples
It is not uncommon for couples to approach an escort agency together as a couple to book an escort. There can be many reasons why people decide to use this type of service.
Often behind this desire for such an experience is the urge for something new and exciting. The dynamic between partners can potentially be enriched by visiting an escort, exploring new facets of sexuality and intimacy.
Bi-double
Bi-double means booking with two escorts. These ladies will immerse themselves in the world of lust and passion not only with each other, but also with you.
The two ladies will often not only be very familiar with each other, but will also share the most intimate moments with you.
Dinner date
A dinner meeting – the customer covers the expenses of inviting the lady to dinner and pays the bill.
Outcall
A booking that takes place outside the agency is called an outcall. The service providers mainly visit private homes and hotels.
Overnight
A reservation for an overnight stay, which usually includes a set amount of sleep, but is not offered by all agencies.
Travel companion
A companion hired to accompany the customer on a trip. This usually means a weekend or weekend trip to another city and sometimes an international trip.
Party bookings
Hiring a group of companions for a celebration, such as a birthday. It's about longer bookings and not necessarily about sex, but about parties.
Some companions are willing to consume alcohol with their clients.
A Levels / Anal Play
Pretty self-explanatory. Rimming and rubbing are popular, but anal play does NOT include anal sex. Some escorts are okay with finger penetration for anal play, so ask first.
OV / oral sex
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Oral sex is an intimate form of sexual intercourse in which the erogenous zones are pampered with the mouth. The use of lips, tongue, teeth and the oral cavity creates a pleasurable stimulation that can bring maximum pleasure to both the giver and the receiver.
Men in particular enjoy the vacuum effect of sucking, which can intensify the sensations. Oral stimulation of the penis is technically referred to as “fellatio ,” while colloquially it is often referred to as “cock sucking.”
When the female genitals are stimulated, it is referred to as “cunnilingus” or, more popularly, “pussy licking”.
Other erogenous zones such as breasts, testicles or the anus can also be involved during oral sex, but these do not have any special names. English terms are sometimes used for oral stimulation of the anus.
Dress ups
Dress ups are a special type of booking in which the escort lady wears a costume according to her wishes, but without immersing herself in a fantasy scenario (as is the case with role play ).
This exciting option allows you to be seduced by a charming companion in a specific outfit and fulfill your fantasies in a subtle way.
Greek / Greek
Fully Greek isn't about souvlaki. What is meant is anal sex with the escort lady.
Full service
Full Service is your complete package booking if you want to avail the full sexual pleasure as it involves normal intercourse which includes penetrative sex, handjobs and mutual oral sex in most places.
Kissing and double penetrations are not always included in the full service, so you may be asked to pay an additional fee.
Girlfriend Experience / Girlfriend Experience / GFE
Similar to full service, but expect it to be much more intimate. GFE usually includes French kisses and oral sex with her as well as conversations, cuddling and relaxing in bed - the escort lady is there to embody a loving partner.
The Girlfriend Experience usually includes standard vanilla sex. Think of these as the usual things you would do with your partner, like hugging, kissing, licking, hand jobs, oral sex, and penetration - all acts of intimacy that come with sharing an emotional bond.
But it doesn't mean the lady does his laundry or takes care of his family 😉
DFK / Deep French Kissing
Intense French kiss. This is usually part of the Girlfriend Experience and refers to open-mouth kisses that involve the use of the tongue.
It's actually a misconception that escorts don't exchange kisses with their clients - clients just might have to pay extra for this intimate privilege.
Pornstar Experience / PSE
If you choose the unique porn star experience with an escort, physical intimacy is the main focus. It's about the ultimate pleasure of passionate and intense sex, which may even be similar to the scenes you know from traditional porn films.
This includes various exciting positions, deep throat, anal sex, loud screams of pleasure, suggestive dirty talk, hair pulling, gentle spanking and the use of sex toys and/or wicked costumes.
Golden Shower / Golden Shower / GS / Pee / NS
The term Golden Shower stands for urophilic practices and manifests itself in a variety of forms. The experience of urine can play a role, be it through seeing, smelling, feeling, tasting or drinking (urophagia) urine (your own or someone else's).
It also includes the act of urinating, such as watching one urinate or peeing on each other (also known as pee ). For some people, just holding in urine and the liberating feeling afterwards is arousing.
The practice of Golden Shower can be experienced as intimate, dirty, humiliating, lewd, or a mixture of these sensations, depending on individual preference.
If you are interested in this service, research high-class escorts who are suitable for the experience you want (or view their profiles).
Keep in mind that a golden shower session with a high-class escort may require a significant surcharge.
OWO
Oral Without (Oral WithOut) , which basically just means no penetration - not to be confused with CBJ (Covered Blowjob) or covered blowjob (with a latex condom to protect against sexually transmitted diseases).
RO
Oral sex of a passive nature (English: Reverse Oral ). In the world of sexual services, this term refers to when the client orally satisfies the escort. In everyday life, however, it describes someone who practices cunnilingus from behind, instead of from the front as traditionalists do.
Sensual massage / erotic massage
An erotic massage can involve very intense closeness, with the handjob usually included in the price.
Additional extras such as kissing, touching or special massages often charge extra, but are not usually a full service.
happy end
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This handjob is a form of manual stimulation that is often used as a complementary part of a massage. This intimate touch ritual can help increase the recipient's relaxation and well-being.
Through targeted movements with your hands, tension can be relieved and blood circulation can be promoted. It is important that both partners feel comfortable and respected to ensure a pleasant and harmonious experience.
Multi Shots
The customer can cum more than once if he can/want. This may cost more than a standard booking.
Role playing games
Role-playing games are a fascinating way to immerse yourself in a world of fantasy and be a completely different person. The participants slip into the skin of their chosen characters and create a captivating story together.
The term “role-playing” often refers to fulfilling a specific role in the game environment. Occasionally, role-playing games with costumes involve acting out a scene together. Imagine a boss and employees, a maid coming over to clean, or a pizza delivery person.
Roman shower
Being vomited by the escort, often through a deep throat blowjob.
Spanish
Also known as "tit fucking", where you slide your penis between the escort's breasts and rub against them.
FFM and FMM – trio or threesome
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In a threesome with two high-class escorts, the focus is on the possibility of experiencing a live girl-on-girl show, in which you as a customer may even be able to take part ( FFM = Female, Female, Male). The harmonious chemistry between high-class escorts is crucial for an unforgettable experience.
Since escorts are only human, there are better and less suitable combinations. We therefore recommend following each agency's recommendations regarding the ideal duos to ensure you have a fantastic experience.
FMM stands for a threesome with a woman and two men (FMM = Female, Male, Male).
Strap on / strap-on dildo
Even if one chooses to go the opposite route, it will likely mean that the escort is wearing a strap-on to dominate you.
Lingerie show
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For an exclusive lingerie presentation, a high class escort will bring several additional sets of luxurious, handcrafted designer lingerie to your meeting. This means she can regularly drape herself in a new, seductive “work of art”.
Since these lingerie sets cost at least €800, are delicate and can only be hand washed, an additional fee will be charged for this. If you are interested in a lingerie presentation, please let us know your preferences regarding type and number of lingerie so that the agency can assist you with the selection.
Tie and Tease / Tie and tease
Safely and gently restraining the customer so that you are restrained for part or all of the booking or vice versa.
water sports
Similar to a golden shower, but water sports include playing with spit, semen, sweat and drool, as well as urine.
