It is always said that women are difficult to understand and are constantly puzzling the world of men. On the other hand, it is not always easy for women to address the right points with a man in order to win his heart.
With these 12 tips we would like to help the world of women a little. So here you will find out how you can win the heart of a man without having to use the classic “weapons of a woman” such as erotic charms, etc.
By the way, you can find another very helpful article on this topic here: How do I win a man over ?
1) Make him laugh
Tell him a stupid joke or act as a clown yourself. If you know him, you know best how to make him laugh. Get started!
Laughing together is the root of good memories. At the same time, it makes people feel better when they laugh. So if you get him to burst out frequently, you automatically convey to his subconscious that you are an important part of his happiness.
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2) Trust him with a secret
Reveal a well-kept secret to the man you desire. Share an unusual or even unpopular opinion with him or reveal something about your past that you don't just tell everyone.
Does that sound illogical to you at first? Or you are afraid of taking this step because you are worried that it might scare the man away. However, the opposite is usually the case.
By revealing a very intimate part of yourself and sharing a formative experience or a very private thought with him, whether unpleasant, shocking or embarrassing, you demonstrate trust in him. And trust, when reciprocated, creates togetherness and closeness.
So when you find the courage to take the first step towards trusting each other, you are laying the foundation for a strong relationship.
3) Allow yourself to be vulnerable
Don't be afraid to cry at a sad movie. Talk openly about when you've had a bad day or when you're just in a sad or depressed mood for no reason.
There is beauty in every human emotion and in the moments when someone is brave enough to show it in front of other people.
4) Encourage him to show his vulnerable side
Ask him often how he is feeling, what he is thinking or what is bothering him at the moment. Go beyond ordinary conversations. At the same time, hold back from your own judgments and evaluative comments, no matter what he has to say.
Don't be afraid to delve into his mind and get to his heart. This way your connection will become deeper and deeper. You will soon become his soulmate and closest emotional confidante.
5) Surprise him with a spontaneous gift
Just give him a little something - without a specific reason - that he wasn't expecting. Such a gift is worth more than one for a specific occasion such as a birthday, Christmas or an anniversary.
In addition, he will definitely be more happy about it, since he didn't expect it.
When you give someone a gift for no apparent reason, you clearly show your affection and appreciation for that person and that they are special to you. It says that every day with him is valuable, and not just special days with a specific occasion.
6) Live out your crazy side
Don't hide behind formalities and social conventions that preach "good behavior" when spending time together.
Instead, be your craziest self! Start dancing spontaneously if you feel like it, sing along loudly to a song if you feel like it. Or try to explain to him the strange logic behind one of your strange habits, tics, or hobbies.
Any man worthy of your spending time with will be deeply impressed by your individuality and confidence. He won't even think of being intimidated or ashamed of it.
7) Bring out his crazy side
Create an atmosphere in which he feels comfortable and free. You can do this, for example, by radiating emotional warmth and openness. And of course by allowing yourself to spin.
The crazier he gets around you, the less pressure he'll feel to maintain his macho attitude when you're around. He will also be grateful to have found in you a woman who respects and appreciates his true self.
8) Cook for him
There's that old saying, "You win a man's heart by his stomach," and there's actually something to it. In addition to the sensual experience of eating itself, cooking together is also a very intimate moment.
By cooking for someone, you are essentially taking care of one of their basic needs and fully attuning yourself to them. A successful meal requires hard work and careful consideration.
And when you create the menu with love for Him, you are simultaneously showing Him that you can put aside your own needs and tastes for His.
9) Cross an item off his to-do list for him
In our adult lives, we all keep lists of things we still need to do. And we don't just do this at work, at work or at school. In our private lives, to-do lists also help us to cope with the diverse demands of everyday life.
The man you desire most likely also keeps such lists - either in writing, via a cell phone app or just in his mind. Use this circumstance to take care of an annoying task on one of his lists.
You can tell what's bothersome to him, for example, when he puts off doing a certain thing over and over again.
So relieve him by doing a household task or an errand of some kind for him. It is one of the best gifts you can give him. In doing so, you give him time – one of the most valuable goods of all.
Your gift will not go unnoticed!
10) Change his mind about something
It's in our nature to form opinions on all kinds of things - music, movies, politics, etc. For example, if you get a man to listen to a band's new album that he would never have listened to on his own, he will that left a lasting impression on him.
This also applies to a movie that you persuade them to see and get them excited about, or by showing them a new perspective on a political or social debate.
In the future, he will firmly associate you with this new facet in his life and will be grateful to you for enriching his life with a new wealth of experience that he would not have had without you.
11) Give him enough space for his friends
This point - as well as the one that follows it - are, in my opinion, the most important aspects to consider in order to create a deep and lasting connection with a man.
Give him enough freedom to do things that excite him in addition to the partnership. In addition to his hobbies, professional interests and sporting activities, these are, above all, his friends.
At the same time, it can be very helpful for you to get to know your closest friends and confidants better. In the vast majority of cases, these also represent a large part of the personality of the man you are dating. If you can convince his best friends about yourself, then you have the best advocates anyone could ask for.
12) Also give him enough space for his family
It goes without saying and shouldn't be mentioned: always be kind, polite and fair to his parents, siblings and other relatives . If you can tolerate them well, this will automatically be the case. However, this can be difficult if dealing with these people is not easy.
But always maintain your composure and don't get involved in any mudslinging. You don't have to give in, but definitely don't let yourself go or get into major arguments.
But let's not assume the worst straight away. As a rule, his family members will be nice and friendly people who will also have a great interest in maintaining a pleasant relationship with you.
A nice gesture is to write down your parents' birthdays and send them regular birthday greetings.
Or help him plan things to do when his parents are in town or visiting. Also remind him to check in with or visit his parents from time to time. It is often a good idea to visit together.
The more you can have a positive influence on his parents' relationship with both of them, the more they will approve of your relationship.
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