A person's attractiveness doesn't just have to do with their external appearance. In addition to the physical beauty features that we tend to be attracted to, there are a number of other factors that determine whether we find a person attractive and interesting.
Since we are not always aware of these less visible features, here is a short list of helpful tips to positively influence your own attractiveness.
- Be decisive and develop confidence in yourself and your decisions. Stand by your decisions and enforce them even in the face of resistance. A firm will seems incredibly sexy.
- Make sure you always smell good. It is not for nothing that the expression “being able to smell someone well” exists. Hygiene and personal hygiene should not be an afterthought. Also wear subtle deodorant or perfume that underlines your character. If you are unsure, simply seek advice and ask family, friends and acquaintances for their opinion.
- Be passionate , not just in love and relationship issues. We are fascinated by people who put their heart and soul into something or are passionate about a task or mission. Discover your innermost passions and follow them. Make sure your life and actions are filled with meaning. Stay focused, even if you have to accept defeat. This can seem irresistible to a potential partner.
- Learn something new. Enter new territory often and try it out. Leave your comfort zone and dare to walk on black ice. In the medium term, you will discover numerous new sides and talents in yourself. Show these!
- Show genuine interest in those around you and the person you are talking to. Be a good and attentive listener. Try to notice things that are important to the other person and reflect on them. Take other people's concerns seriously.
- Stay active and do things. Soak up life and enjoy it to the fullest. Treat yourself to things that are good for you. Surround yourself with people and discover similarities.
- Smile. Laugh. Have fun with your life and show it to the outside world. Don't be afraid to share positive feelings with other people and express them publicly. Above all, be positive. If this is difficult for you in some moments, don't just ignore it, but actively work on a more positive attitude towards life. Where there is shadow, there is always a source of light.
- Earn good money. Whether we admit it or not, wealthy people tend to be more attractive to us than poor people. So money is attractive.
