Dirty Talk – Which sexy sayings make men hot?

Dirty talk can feel strange at first as your brain scrambles to find the perfect dirty lines to say to your partner.

Relax a little - dirty talk is not an exact science and dealing with it depends more on how comfortable you are than how much you know about it.

Here's how to kinky fantasies and what sexy things to say to your partner outside of the bedroom to ensure stimulation.

How to practice dirty talk with confidence - even if you're shy

1. Make yourself comfortable

Give yourself permission to go at your own pace. No one but you has the schedule to learn dirty talk. Sharing your fantasies via texting may be a better choice if you're new to face-to-face play.

2. Focus on what turns you on

Dirty talk is n't about being gross, rude, or vulgar. It's all about whether it's stimulating for you and your partner. What makes a sentence erotic and titillating is the way sexually aroused you become when you hear it.

3. Don't think about it too much

The dirty things you say to your partner should feel natural and consistent with the moment. It doesn't have to be super creative; It just has to feel good for you and your partner. Good sex is supposed to be liberating and exploratory.

Let dirty talk enhance your sexual experience and don't get in your own way. The sooner you ignore the pressure you put on yourself, the easier it will be to explore the sexual experience.

4. Avoid details

If you want to describe the moment for your partner, you don't have to mention their cup size or girth. Something as simple as “I love your body” can get the ball rolling. And if you want to add a few adjectives, examples like - like fat, huge and wet - work really well.

5. Get comfortable with your partner

The incentive for erotic exchange that you feel in your relationship depends primarily on what you are willing to try sexually. “Talking to your partner(s) about your interests in dirty talk beforehand can be a great way to reduce anxiety when you're actually in the moment.

Communicate, explore and communicate some more. A greater sense of intimacy can arise in your relationship by learning to talk dirty and uninhibitedly.

5. Refrain from judging

Be open and have the mentality of “yes and…”. If someone says something unusual, just follow up and add to it. Be the person who champions another person's sexual fantasy and doesn't suppress it.

Which sayings men particularly respond to

Most men like women who don't hold their tongues and say what they like openly and boldly. Men like being told what to do to you. So don't be afraid to comment clearly and visually on what really turns you on and what is particularly sexy about your partner.

Even supposedly self-confident men are happy about any form of recognition, especially in erotic moments. After all, they want to do everything right and give you a hot, unforgettable experience. What man doesn't want to be a hot and desirable lover and have this verbally confirmed by the female sex?

Many men are extremely grateful when you tell them what turns them on or what you want from them. Dirty talk can also refresh the sex life in a long-term relationship and new momentum under the bedsheet .

So if you want to enrich your love life with a stimulating portion of dirty talk, then be as direct and blunt as possible . Awkward paraphrases and hesitant statements appear unconfident and can ruin the whole mood. Men like women who know what they want - and who demand it during erotic lovemaking and sex. He will be only too happy to fulfill your wishes!

And if you feel a little too shy and insecure at the moment, just practice alone in front of the mirror or with a good friend. This can not only be very funny and entertaining, but it can also catapult you a lot further and give you a confident appearance when you make your first attempts at dirty talk. Just be brave!

Men like these sentences:

• "Take me!"
• “I want to feel you deep inside me. Right now!"
• “Do whatever you want with me!”
• “Cum in my face!”
• “Give it to me properly!”
• “You’re making me so wet!”
• “I want to feel you deep inside me!”
• "You turn Me On!"
• "You're so hot!"
• “I want to feel your hard penis inside me!”
• “Put your hard penis in my wet pussy!”
• “Take me hard!”

Dirty Talk – What should I whisper in his ear?

Do you now have the right basic attitude and finally want to get started with erotic pillow talk? Good idea!

Here is a wealth of inspiration and examples of how you can get started straight away with sexy sayings and dirty thoughts and get your partner really hot, sorted according to different situations and phases of lovemaking:

Dirty things to say during sex

To build anticipation:

• “I’m so wet right now.”
• “I don’t have any panties on.”
• “I’m dripping with pleasure.”
• “I need to feel you against me.”
• “I need your lips on my skin.”
• “Just wait until we get home.”
• “I want your mouth on me.”
• “I want you to fuck me from behind.”
• "I want you in me."
• “I want to see you play with yourself.”
• “I want you to undress me.”
• “I want you between my thighs.”
• "I want to taste you."
• “I want your cock in my mouth.”

In that moment:

• "Hold me."
• “Stroke me all over my body.”
• "Come to me."
• “Kiss my nipples.”
• “Choke me.”
• “Grab my ass.”
• "Just as."
• "Exactly there."
• “Pull my hair.”
• "Bite me."
• "Look at me."
• “Say my name.”
• “Whisper in my ear.”
• "Do not stop."
• “Moan for me.”
• “Stroke my slit.”
• “Play with my clit.”
• "Come here."
• "You like that?"

Recognitions:

• “You feel so good inside me.”
• “You’re doing so well.”
• “Your cock feels great.”
• "I love your body."
• “I love it when you grit your teeth.”
• “I love it when you whisper in my ear.”
• “I love it when you touch me there.”
• “I love the way you moan.”
• “I love the way you taste.”

One-word classic:

• "Harder."
• "Slower."
• "More."
• "More quickly."
• “Deeper.”
• "Please."
• "Volume up."
• “Fuck.”

In conclusion:

• “I love how hard you can make me cum.”
• “Your tongue is incredible.”
• “That was magical.”
• “You want to do it again?”

Dirty talk for everyday life outside of the bedroom

Dirty talk isn't just for the bedroom. Here are some ideas for dirty things to say to your partner to keep the sexual energy flowing in your relationship.

Memories:

• “I think about your body all the time.”
• “I can’t get you out of my head.”
• “Do you remember last night when we [insert sexual activity]? Wow."
• “Which sex position was your favorite?”
• “My body misses your [insert body part].”
• “When I think about you, I want to touch myself.”

Future plans:

• “When you get here, I will [insert sexual activity].”
• “I really enjoyed it when we had [insert sexual activity]. Let’s try again.”
• “I can’t wait to fuck you tonight.”
• "I've been thinking about [filling in the blank] all day and I can't wait until we can [fill in the blank]."
• “What do you think about [insert sexual activity] next time we’re in bed?”
• “I’ve been looking forward to sitting on your face all day.”
• “I know it's been a long day. That’s why I’m going to [insert sexual activity] when you get home.”

Observations/longings:

• “What you do with your [insert body part] really turns me on.”
• “It makes me horny when you [fill in the blank].”
• "You are always in my thoughts."
• "I want you so much."
• “You look good enough to put it in my mouth today.”
• “You make me so wet/hard when you moan.”

Dirty talk on the phone

Whether it's your first time having phone sex or you're in a long-distance relationship, here are some dirty things to say when connecting with someone virtually. Pair it with a long-distance sex toy to up the ante even further.

Tailor these phrases to suit your relationship and adapt them to the language you and your partner already use.

Longing:

• "I wish I was there."
• “I wish I could hold you now.”
• “I miss the way you feel inside me.”
• “I miss the taste of you.”
• “I miss the way your [insert body part] feels against my [insert body part] [insert verb].”
• “When I get back, I’m going to [insert sexual activity].”
• “I can’t wait until I can fuck you again.”
• “I’m going to fuck you so hard when I see you.”
• “I’ll rip your clothes off as soon as I see you.”

In the mood:

• “The thought of you is making me so wet/hard right now.”
• “I want to see you naked…right now.”
• “Just hearing your voice makes me want to touch myself.”
• “I love it when you talk like that.”
• “Tell me what you want to do to me.”
• “I want to feel how wet/hard you are.”
• “Play with yourself for me.”
• “Whisper dirty things to me.”
• “Tell me what you want from me.”

Erotic questions:

• "What are you wearing right now?"
• “Are you touching yourself?”
• “Do you want to have FaceTime sex?”
• "Are you alone?"
• “Do you miss my body?”
• “What else would you like me to do to you?”
• “Do you want to listen to me?”
• “The way you sext me is hot; Do you want to show me what you’re talking about?”
• "I'm touching myself. Would you like to try it too?"

The comfort you feel with yourself and your relationship is a crucial factor in dirty talk.

Now you know enough erotic sayings and dirty texts that you can say during sex, before sex and after sex - all you have to do now is try it out.