“You bad, bad, bad boy…”
Spoken with the right melody and gentleness, this well-known statement has often left the lips of a beautiful woman. Be it in films, books or even music. These words sound attractive and erotic at the same time.
But what makes evil so erotic? Because you were naughty, a guy immediately bursts with attraction?
Yes he does. In a sense, at least. A man who might do something bad to a child, on the other hand, is not erotic. But a real guy who robs a bank not only attracts the attention of the police, but also the dreamy and doting looks of many women.
Image source: Stockton Police Department Facebook page
The hype about Jeremy Meeks
Like, for example, Mr. Jeremy Meeks . The American has a long list of charges and some may even see him as the archetype of the criminal.
He's done it all, from armed robberies to extortion and drug trafficking. Now this has resulted not only in a long prison sentence, but also in highly lucrative contract offers from modeling agencies.
He is now celebrated in the media as “the sexy gangster” par excellence. Full lips, blue eyes, angular face and of course a toned six-pack under orange arrest clothes. A real testosterone dealer, so to speak.
But it's more than Meeks' looks or physical attractiveness that fuels women's fantasies. But what are these reasons why it is not only the state authorities that desperately want him “at home”?
It's not just his particularly masculine appearance. It is the unknown. And the dangerous as well as the unpredictable. This appearance promises an adventure of a very special class. He is more unequal than most other men. the bad boy syndrome is once again celebrating itself unbridled.
Women send Jeremy Meeks love letters, homemade pastries and some even their worn underwear to prison. A pop star on stage behind steel bracing.
There is even a female collective that is collecting money for his release (more on Twitter using the hashtag #FreeJeremyMeeks ). And it's not just the public prosecutor and the lovely feminine who are after him, but also various modeling agencies and fashion labels.
Image source: Sandra Rose
These men behind bars awaken hidden sexual fantasies and also the motherly protective maternal instinct in women. A mix of emotions and primal instincts on a roller coaster ride.
The genes of these real guys promise special offspring. Maybe a brave, daring son who will later be able to assert himself in the evil world. A son with toned confidence and muscles.
Attractive men are not always well-behaved, caring and sweet. No, the woman would also like to “tame”.
Touch and pet the beast. Physically and mentally. So you know the desire to maybe pet a real lion or bear and maybe go for a walk with such a predator on a leash.
HE is evil but obeys me and does nothing to me.”
The submission of such a dangerous man is a confirmation of very special kindness for many a lady. The famous game with fire, the aloof, the indomitable and wild screams to the bored world of women.
He wants to be loved and accepted - but he can't because he's so terribly evil. This is incredibly appetizing for many women.
Score points in online dating with a touch of bad boy
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If you are male, you may be wondering what you can gain from reading this article. Quite simply, you can make a little use of this phenomenon yourself to score points with the lovely femininity.
A daring face, with sharp edges and a three-day beard that frames the profile in a somewhat wicked way, can achieve particular success when looking for a partner.
Try not to make your profile on dating sites seem too slick. Just use a photo in which you don't look so polished.
But of course it shouldn't be too posed and should still fit your personality. And above all, it should not be taken behind bars, because adhering to the law not only brings with it the benefit of freedom.
Not all women are actually attracted to gangsters, but rather the idea.
And that's just as well…
