Are you one of those single women who actually don't want to be alone and would rather have a strong man by your side? Then you have probably often asked yourself whether you are simply tired of waiting and should now take the first step in finding a partner.
You have certain requirements and clear ideas about your dream man. Now you want to take your private happiness into your own hands!
According to current studies , it was found that around two thirds of all dates and appointments that come about are from women. So women take the first step and men usually know this too - you just shouldn't openly show them that they are not the "hunter" , but the woman.
If you want to launch a frontal attack on the big stage, then you should perhaps apply for one of the numerous dating shows on television and perhaps find your dream partner there - or you can take the rudder into your own hands in real life.
But first: what are these dating shows all about and why are there more and more of them on television (including on RTL, RTL II or SAT.1)?
Dating show phenomenon
Dating shows help unhappy single people find a partner and accompany them with the camera. Reasons for registering for such a show can be, for example, a desire for adventure, but also shyness, no time to leave, curiosity, or even a broken heart and the hope of true love on the big stage.
You may have heard of the following introductory shows:
“Wedding at First Sight” on Sat.1
In this so-called dating documentary, four couples meet for the first time in front of the registry office and get married there. Based on various factors, a team of experts uses science to select the “perfect partner”. After the wedding, the newlywed couple will be accompanied by experts in their everyday lives during the getting-to-know-you phase. After two months, the decision is made whether the couple will stay together or divorce again.
“Giving a Heart – A Chance for Love” on RTL
This dating show helps lonely hearts take the step to actively look for a partner. With their personal introduction in a detailed portrait - over several TV episodes - the singles launch a call for interested like-minded people to contact RTL. The meeting is then accompanied by a camera and the singles can date and get a closer look at each other in a comfortable atmosphere.
“Take me out” on RTL:
30 single women take a close look at their potential dream partner and also reveal a lot about themselves. In this show, the male candidate has to try to convince the women over several rounds.
The gentlemen of creation rely on dance skills, singing skills, humor, originality or their sense of romance. This program has a certain show effect and the presenter accompanies the lively goings-on with a good dose of humor.
Dating on TV – How it all began
Almost 30 years ago there was the show “Herzblatt” – everyone knows it. A man or woman asked self-selected questions to a person behind a wall and then decided based on the answers when they chose. The newfound couple was allowed to take a helicopter flight at the end of the show and got to know each other.
This first flirt show was finally canceled over 10 years ago. It is still considered one of the most successful dating shows ever today. Since then, new formats have repeatedly tried to build on these successes and have enjoyed great popularity overall.
Dating in real life
In addition to the possibility of getting to know your dream partner through a dating show, there is of course still the tried and tested method of conquering a man in normal life - in a café, in bars, clubs, discos, at private parties, through friends, in Everyday life, at work or in your free time while practicing hobbies. Above all, the way you communicate and what you convey to the outside world contributes a lot to the success with which you conquer men's hearts.
If you are a little out of practice in this regard, here are a few helpful tips to get you started on how to skillfully attract and conquer men's attention:
Giving and getting attention
You can expect a man to be flattered when you take the initiative . Don't skimp on confirmation and ask him for advice. Recognition and respect are important to all men, so he will respond to attention in an affirming and positive manner. Seduce with charm. Show your interest through your body language and small, random touches.
Show and practice initiative
Shyness is a poor excuse - it won't get you anywhere. Everyone is afraid of rejection, but you can't be left worse off than before. Take the first look when a man interests you and don't look away. Even if the first glance seems long, hold on and smile. This profound “moment” often has an impact.
Also practice everyday situations in which you approach men. Ask for directions and ask a gentleman you like for help. It is important that you learn to overcome yourself. The experiences you have, even if they are negative, make it easier for you to approach the object of desire in an emergency. Take the first step - only very few are lucky enough to have the chosen one unexpectedly knock on the door.
Behavior is often more important than appearance
You've probably heard the sentence: "Actually he/she didn't look that great, but then he/she had something for me - and now he/she is the greatest person for me .
If you are confident in yourself as a woman and seductress and present yourself as you are, this is the first step to success in finding a partner .
Be confident. Of course, the first impression is important and this includes a well-groomed but not too fake appearance. Men often don't care that much if a woman doesn't have the ideal measurements. Behavior counts much more than appearance. And the more stimulating a conversation is, the more attractive the other person becomes.
You conquer a man when you make him curious and at the same time give him your attention. A balance between speaking and listening also builds trust and closeness.
Interpret signals correctly
If you conquer men , it is extremely important to correctly interpret the non-verbal signals that inevitably come from them. Only when “he” discovers his interest in you is it worth starting or continuing the “conquest”.
But how does a man show through body language and demeanor that he wants to impress a woman and is interested in her? Here are some examples:
- Stand upright and straight
- Stretch out your chest and pull in your stomach
- Sit with your legs apart
- Stand with your legs apart and place your hands on your sides
- Determined demeanor
- Mild dominance behavior
- Fixed gaze on the woman
- Speaking in a deep voice
- He wants to appear imposing, take up a lot of space and make himself bigger
- Place your arm on the backrest behind the woman
If you pay attention to these “signals” in your counterpart, which he sends out unconsciously and therefore cannot control, you will quickly see whether you can conquer this man and whether your effort will be worth it. Flirting expert Dietling Tornieporth advises in this context:
Maybe with these suggestions I could now offer you a little help in deciding which way of finding a partner is right for you: the big show stage or real life. In both cases, I wish you a lot of tailwind and a successful “hunt” 🙂
