The first date in real life after online dating via singles sites is imminent and your nerves are on edge . This doesn't have to be the case, because excessive demands or putting yourself under pressure are counterproductive. With the tips from singlezentrale.com, the excitement will definitely calm down a bit.
Choosing the right place...
... is very simple, because if it doesn't fit, there's just the wrong place anyway. Then a polite exit after a modest drink helps. Neutral places such as cafés or restaurants are popular.
Going to the cinema is a bit too intimate and prevents a lively conversation. You should keep your own home a secret until you get to know each other better.
What do I wear?
Smart clothing is permitted, but make sure you are not overdressed, but rather appropriately dressed for the location and the occasion. Women shouldn't overdo it when it comes to make-up.
Men who are unsure about style can seek advice from a stylish friend or sister. The general rule is: Don't dress up, come to the first meeting in your usual style. A well-groomed appearance should be a given.
Wanting to appear more than you are
Rather not! After further dates at the latest, the truth comes to light. An interested conversation partner also likes to ask questions when presented with particularly impressive hobbies and skills. Then you quickly start swimming.
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Be honest - then you will generally appear likeable and, above all, authentic to the other person. If you feel shy or excited, feel free to say so to feel more confident. A disarming smile on the lips puts both sides in a positive mood.
The topics in the first conversation
Anyone who tries to set up the next date or initiate a relationship after just a few sentences will take the other person by surprise. Avoid taboo topics such as your ex, sexual preferences and the like, as well as drinking too much alcohol.
It's better to listen to the subtle nuances and give suggestions that show the other person that you find them interesting. The rest comes by itself.
